Relationship Rescue Series: Commitment Phobia Positive Affirmations audio CD

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Commitment Phobia Affirmations
Overcome fear of commitment and finally experience the joys of intimately connecting with your partner on all levels with the help of this mind enhancing affirmations album.
Are you the kind of person who prefers to keep their options open, but it’s now standing in the way of a possibly great relationship?
Have you been so badly hurt in the past that you’re now sincerely afraid to give in to your feelings and to commit to someone?
Do you find it difficult to trust your partner?
Do you want to overcome commitment phobia and to create a healthy relationship based on mutual trust and respect?
Cold feet and uncertainty are normal, especially when it comes to big decisions that can have an impact on a huge part of your life, but if you’re recognizing a pattern that you’ve been following from one relationship to another, or if you just can’t make yourself to commit to your present partner even though you know you love him/her, then it’s time to do something about it or you can spend your entire life regretting the chances you’ve missed.
If your partner is ready to commit and you’re not, you’re sending a very bad signal. Are you really willing to risk (yet another?) relationship because you don’t want to face your fear of commitment?
If your partner isn’t giving you a single reason to distrust them, then you need to accept that the problem is within you –
and you need to make a commitment to yourself that you will solve it. To yourself first, before you commit to anything or anyone else.
This album will help you to make and keep this commitment. It will support your decision to overcome your phobia of pledging yourself to a relationship and allow you to let go of your fear on the subconscious level.
What to Expect
It won’t be as easy as running away, but if you stick to it after a while you will find that:
Your fear of commitment is gradually melting away.
Affirmations will help you to uncover its true causes and to let go of the past that hurt you. You will understand that it’s OK to put your faith into your partner and into your future together, and you will stop being frightened of a serious relationship.
You have broken the “what if” pattern.
The unending series of “what ifs” could be the reason why you prefer to stay free and keep your options open, but it’s actually a trap that makes you always look for something else and miss what’s right in front of you. This album will help you to break free from this pattern and free you up to make the most of the opportunity of a great relationship that’s been waiting for you to accept it.
You have overcome your intimacy issues.
You will become more relaxed about getting to know your partner and letting them get to know you. You will overcome your insecurity and you’ll finally be able to create a healthy and rewarding relationship.
This album will allow you to finally let go of fears and inhibitions holding you back, so buy it now and allow yourself to experience the joy of belonging to someone and having someone of your own.
Present Tense
I am completely committed to my partner
I do not dwell on my past relationships
I am no longer frightened of being in a relationship
I believe in my ability to have a successful relationship
I am not afraid to introduce my partner to friends and family
I respect myself and my partner very much
I remain calm when my partner talks about commitment
My relationship makes me feel safe and loved
I am finding it easier to relax more in relationships
The more committed I become, the less stressful my relationship is
Future Tense
I will become more committed to my relationship
When the right person comes along commitment will not be an issue
My commitment to my partner increases every day
I am transforming into a positive and committed individual
The more committed I become, the more my relationship improves
Every day my relationship improves
Others are beginning to notice how committed I am becoming
I am beginning to realise that my fear of commitment is hindering me
I will become more open about my feelings
I will overcome my fear of commitment
Natural Tense
Others see me as an individual committed to my relationship
Commitment is easy
Being committed to my partner comes naturally to me
I do not constantly wish I was single
Since I have been committed my life has improved
My relationship is the most important thing in the world to me
My friends are envious of how committed my partner and I are to one another
Speaking about relationship issues with my partner is normal
I enjoy being in a relationship
I have the power to control whether my relationship works out or not
How and Why Positive Affirmations Work?
Imagine if your entire life you were told that you?re beautiful. Your parents, your aunts, your friends, your school teachers ? everyone around you helped you form a strong belief that you?re really beautiful, so your self-talk becomes no different: you simply know that it?s true, and your behavior follows. But what if your belief system was fed with another kind of thoughts? Yes, you guessed it right.
Most of us aren?t immune to self-defeating and/or negative thoughts, but at the same time we wish that it could all somehow change: that we were more self-confident, that we had more of an entrepreneurial mindset, that we were able to cope with the challenges in our lives more easily?
Well, our mind can make these changes ? we simply have to feed it with different kind of thoughts, and that?s where the affirmations come in.
When faced with statements that affirm something different than we currently believe is true, our subconscious has two choices: to avoid it, or to reconsider its previous beliefs. Its first reaction is usually to stay with its perceived inner truth, especially if the gap is too big, simply because it?s easier,
but your job is not to give up before, first, it gets familiar with the idea that the truth might actually be something more beneficial to you, then starts accepting this more positive self-image as quite possibly your own truth, and finally turns it into a belief, a conviction just as strong as if it has been with you your entire life.
So you see, even though you might have been raised to believe that beautiful is something different than you, you can re-program that belief and completely change the way you feel about yourself and, consequently, the way others see you. And the best part is ? you can do that with practically anything you?re not happy about in your life!
How Recorded Affirmations Work?
Most people think that reciting the affirmations by themselves is the most effective way for a new, positive beliefs to take root in our minds. This can be true for some people, but the limitation of this approach is that you can?t recite them when there?s someone else in the room, or when you?re doing something else, like when you?re exercising or cooking (too many things to focus on at once).
Recorded affirmations remove these limitations: you can play them whenever you want, as many times as you want ? even when you sleep, and they will still have the same beneficial effect. Why?
Well, first of all, all of our affirmations have been professionally recorded so that they reflect the excitement and conviction that they should inspire within you, so that you can identify yourself with them more easily.
Second, even if you?re not consciously paying attention to them, they still enter your subconscious and make changes within it. You will notice that the more you listen to them, you?re feeling less of the resistance you perhaps felt when you just started, and that will be the first proof that they actually do work. Feeling much better about yourself will be the next one, followed by a strong empowering feeling that you can finally change your life the way you?ve always wanted to.
About Our Tenses
Each album consists of three sets of affirmations:
Present tense affirmations
The affirmations in this set usually begin with ?I am?, ?I choose? and similar statements formulated in the present tense. This set is for you if you feel that the gap between your current beliefs and the ones you want to acquire isn?t too big, so by affirming that the change has already occurred or that it is occurring right now you are only filling the missing blocks of thoughts that should fill the gap and strengthen your conviction.
In other words, if you?re already feeling that the change you want to induce within yourself is possible and on its way, that you?re close to it and that you only need a consistent reminder and focusing ? then you won?t go wrong with this set.
Future tense affirmations
This set of affirmations is formulated to help your subconscious get accustomed to the possibility that one day in the near future, you will become the kind of person you want to become and that your life will turn the way you?d like.
This set is for you if you?re right now finding it difficult to believe that what you want is something you can actually have ? if your current beliefs are too far from it and if your internal resistance is too strong. If that?s the case, you should first use this set before moving on to one of the other two. It will basically plant the seeds of change within your subconscious and bridge the gap which currently exists.
Natural affirmations
Natural affirmations are formulated so that they are timeless in a way. There are two cases when this set is a good choice:
When you want to affirm that you?re so firmly set in your positive belief that it?s all natural, that the change you want to induce is already reflecting on your life so that you don?t need to be actively engaged with it anymore
When you want to ?trick? your mind into believing that something is just a natural behavior (that it?s less scary than you thought, or that it?s commonly accepted, or that it?s a universal truth for example).
That?s why it?s best to use this set in combination with one of the previous two, depending on the way you judge your current state and, of course, the way this set of affirmations makes you feel.
What Is the Best Set for You?
As we have previously explained, each set has its own characteristics but the easiest way to decide which one is currently right for you is to read or listen to all of them once or a few times, and to observe how you feel: the set that resonates with you the most, the one that sounds most natural to you is the one you should go with.
You can also combine two sets and listen to one after another, or in different periods of the day, if you feel that the combination would be the best choice for you. You will most probably not need to listen to all three albums during the same period, but you certainly can if you feel that you need them all.
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